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25 Responses to “Why Men Fear Dating “Big Girls” -GurlTalkkTV”
you’re making a … you’re making a generalization with absolutely no backup.
i am a bigger girl i exercise 3-5x a week around my busy school schedule and i am a vegetarian and have been for seven years.
please dont make assumptions. you make yourself look like an ass. just sayin.
You’re welcome and … You’re welcome and I pray that Mr. Right comes along soon cause he will. There is somebody for everybody ? Some men like BBW anyways & ain’t shy about it. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Don’t worry about the ones that rejected you, they weren’t meant for you. God has somebody tailor-made just for you ♥
You must be living … You must be living in an area where more big girls are not divas like I am. Independent, beautiful women who don’t consider their weight to be a flaw. I know I don’t at all, it doesn’t affect me or my radiance. Good men have been turned into wimps worrying about what friends and family think. who approach, find out quick that I ain’t easy at all. I know many skinny girls who are the nastiest, laziest, gold digging on the planet. Just becuz ur skinny, doesn’t make you cute.
As a BBW black … As a BBW black woman, I am shocked that someone actually admitted to this. Several times, I have been admired from afar by good men who dare not approach because their “homies” will make fun of them and families will think they’re desperate. It is frustrating and it’s why I’ve been single. I’m not ugly, I’m not sloppy, and I’m a virgin by choice. The ones I don’t want just think I’m easy. Thanx 4 that.
Man I think women … Man I think women use the term thick cause its seems more acceptable and less degrading than fat. If your stomach sticks out further than waist then you are fat both men and women…unless the woman is pregnant of course
Ok i felt this … Ok i felt this video could have been a little more in depth but I am an individual that will not date a big girl. It’s my preference and we all have preferences. I’m an individual that enjoys working out and living a healthy lifestyle and most women that are overweight despise that.
I have a friend/ … I have a friend/co-woker who is a big woman. She has a very low self esteem and whenever men approach/ pursue her she begins to bash herself I guess to beat him to the punch. Weight shouldn’t be an issue if a man approaches you as is big woman. I get so frustrated with the big girl thing. If it isn’t your preference keep it moving. I use to date a guy who was missing his front tooth (i gave him a chance) and he always clowned big girls like he had it together. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some guys really … Some guys really want to date one BUT are too scared of what their “friends” and family will think. I knew a guy that told me that he had a crush on a cute Thick -ssiter from work. He was scared to pursue it. I told him he was gonna miss out worrying what someone else thinks ? A women with a smaller size is not immune to gaining weight anyways. Ask me how I know ? (LOL)
You disagree are … You disagree are you crazy? When i said hot girls i didn’t mean hoars or sluts. Cute girls will have better personalities because they know they look good and they wont always be worried about it. Fat girls on the other hand are pigs they are trashy to make up for their fat.
I disagree! the hot … I disagree! the hot sexy girls are the ones with the worst personalities and the nastiest attitudes, and also,the hot sexy girls are the ones that want men to take them out on endless shopping sprees, making them look even sexier, while the guy is going broke spending all his money on her.
I’m 14 5′3 185lbs … I’m 14 5′3 185lbs and I love my but and my fat I’ve never felt self concious except for during sex I can’t show my stomach to any man does anybody have any advice other than I’m 14 and shouldn’t be having sex?PLEASE
This question and … This question and your reasons you have given are handled very maturely and honestly. When ever I’m dealing with a man I always make sure to ask if they have no problems and that they can tell as best as I can make it known that they can tell how big of a girl I am.
I recently had an experience with someone who assured me he was comfortable with it but when it came right down to it, he could not perform. Sad and a huge waste of his and my time.
Your videos are … Your videos are bull crap ne3gr0. Nobody cares about personality because hot cute girls=very nice personality. Men are afraid your gonna order to much on a date and they have to cover your $500 bill.
well im african … well im african american female 5′3 and about 200 pounds all tho i dont look that big…but im proportioned i have 38 dd and a big lol…..but i never had a boyfriend….my first boyfriend was my total opposite about 5′6 and prolly 110-115 soaking wet lol….but he was attracted to me i didnt even notice him cuz i thought he would like my friend but she told me that he really liked me….and he did…so idk but if u love urself its easier for someone to love you
“I am not over … “I am not over weight and I don’t know how large you are. Men are not supposed to be big you should have more fire energy. Women by nature are larger due to the moisture of our bodies”
You sound retarded. You basicalyl are saying slim guys should be fat cow women, yet you say, u are not a fat woman. Speak English.
Yes even if a girl … Yes even if a girl is taller then the guy, she should NOT weigh more. I agree. I can’t go for girls beyond 125lbs. My range is usually 110-120lb I go for, cause it’s not easy being with a fat woman. I like girls with sleek stealthy slender fit bodies.
This episode covers the two general fears that cause a person to hesitate in
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
you’re making a …
you’re making a generalization with absolutely no backup.
i am a bigger girl i exercise 3-5x a week around my busy school schedule and i am a vegetarian and have been for seven years.
please dont make assumptions. you make yourself look like an ass. just sayin.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
You’re welcome and …
You’re welcome and I pray that Mr. Right comes along soon cause he will. There is somebody for everybody ? Some men like BBW anyways & ain’t shy about it. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Don’t worry about the ones that rejected you, they weren’t meant for you. God has somebody tailor-made just for you ♥
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
You must be living …
You must be living in an area where more big girls are not divas like I am. Independent, beautiful women who don’t consider their weight to be a flaw. I know I don’t at all, it doesn’t affect me or my radiance. Good men have been turned into wimps worrying about what friends and family think. who approach, find out quick that I ain’t easy at all. I know many skinny girls who are the nastiest, laziest, gold digging on the planet. Just becuz ur skinny, doesn’t make you cute.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
As a BBW black …
As a BBW black woman, I am shocked that someone actually admitted to this. Several times, I have been admired from afar by good men who dare not approach because their “homies” will make fun of them and families will think they’re desperate. It is frustrating and it’s why I’ve been single. I’m not ugly, I’m not sloppy, and I’m a virgin by choice. The ones I don’t want just think I’m easy. Thanx 4 that.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
Man I think women …
Man I think women use the term thick cause its seems more acceptable and less degrading than fat. If your stomach sticks out further than waist then you are fat both men and women…unless the woman is pregnant of course
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
Ok i felt this …
Ok i felt this video could have been a little more in depth but I am an individual that will not date a big girl. It’s my preference and we all have preferences. I’m an individual that enjoys working out and living a healthy lifestyle and most women that are overweight despise that.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
I have a friend/ …
I have a friend/co-woker who is a big woman. She has a very low self esteem and whenever men approach/ pursue her she begins to bash herself I guess to beat him to the punch. Weight shouldn’t be an issue if a man approaches you as is big woman. I get so frustrated with the big girl thing. If it isn’t your preference keep it moving. I use to date a guy who was missing his front tooth (i gave him a chance) and he always clowned big girls like he had it together. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
Some guys really …
Some guys really want to date one BUT are too scared of what their “friends” and family will think. I knew a guy that told me that he had a crush on a cute Thick -ssiter from work. He was scared to pursue it. I told him he was gonna miss out worrying what someone else thinks ? A women with a smaller size is not immune to gaining weight anyways. Ask me how I know ? (LOL)
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
I actually agree …
I actually agree with you 100% HotShot5494! It’s not all big girls, but most that I have met act like complete whores & Pigs.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
now adays its abt …
now adays its abt looks and how do u gett over ur self being big? howdo u make others love the way u look whn u r big?
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
You disagree are …
You disagree are you crazy? When i said hot girls i didn’t mean hoars or sluts. Cute girls will have better personalities because they know they look good and they wont always be worried about it. Fat girls on the other hand are pigs they are trashy to make up for their fat.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
I disagree! the hot …
I disagree! the hot sexy girls are the ones with the worst personalities and the nastiest attitudes, and also,the hot sexy girls are the ones that want men to take them out on endless shopping sprees, making them look even sexier, while the guy is going broke spending all his money on her.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
You are 14 and …
You are 14 and SHOULDN’T be having SEX !!!
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
lol keep thinking …
lol keep thinking that
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
I’m 14 5′3 185lbs …
I’m 14 5′3 185lbs and I love my but and my fat I’ve never felt self concious except for during sex I can’t show my stomach to any man does anybody have any advice other than I’m 14 and shouldn’t be having sex?PLEASE
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
lol whoever thumb’d …
lol whoever thumb’d me down must b fat
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
This question and …
This question and your reasons you have given are handled very maturely and honestly. When ever I’m dealing with a man I always make sure to ask if they have no problems and that they can tell as best as I can make it known that they can tell how big of a girl I am.
I recently had an experience with someone who assured me he was comfortable with it but when it came right down to it, he could not perform. Sad and a huge waste of his and my time.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
Your videos are …
Your videos are bull crap ne3gr0. Nobody cares about personality because hot cute girls=very nice personality. Men are afraid your gonna order to much on a date and they have to cover your $500 bill.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
that basically …
that basically summed it all up!
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
its easier said …
its easier said then done…
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
well im african …
well im african american female 5′3 and about 200 pounds all tho i dont look that big…but im proportioned i have 38 dd and a big lol…..but i never had a boyfriend….my first boyfriend was my total opposite about 5′6 and prolly 110-115 soaking wet lol….but he was attracted to me i didnt even notice him cuz i thought he would like my friend but she told me that he really liked me….and he did…so idk but if u love urself its easier for someone to love you
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
Lmao
Lmao
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
They are afraid …
They are afraid they will like it…..
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
“I am not over …
“I am not over weight and I don’t know how large you are. Men are not supposed to be big you should have more fire energy. Women by nature are larger due to the moisture of our bodies”
You sound retarded. You basicalyl are saying slim guys should be fat cow women, yet you say, u are not a fat woman. Speak English.
January 17th, 2010 at 3:34 am
Yes even if a girl …
Yes even if a girl is taller then the guy, she should NOT weigh more. I agree. I can’t go for girls beyond 125lbs. My range is usually 110-120lb I go for, cause it’s not easy being with a fat woman. I like girls with sleek stealthy slender fit bodies.